WHY I LOVE MY JOB

I kind of fell into sensual massage. It was never planned, but once I started, I knew I loved it!.

I’d been working a corporate job for many years. While it had been extremelychallenging and fulfilling, as time went by it became less challenging and more mundane. This coincided with a bit of a mid-life crisis – the breakdown of a long-term relationship, the loss of a parent, reaching my mid-forties… I started looking for something more..

Over several years I took up naked yoga, tried meditation and mindfulness, began assisting at men’s workshops, camps and retreats… all with the aim of doing something different but not quite sure what. Many of those around me were masseurs and encouraged me to try giving massages as well. However, I wasn’t confident and in my mind a massage was therapeutic, and you needed years of training to be a masseur.

And then I did something that truly changed my life. I quit my corporate job and enrolled in sexological bodywork training. A very healthy interest in sex has always been a core part of my life, so the training really called to me. This amazing training, with a small group of like-minded, sexually open and curious men and women, has been foundational in my education on all things erotic. It made me realise that all those years of retreats, camps and workshops had already taught me so much. And all those years of having sex – as a single man, as a couple, as a thruple, in a group – also gave me years of experience.

Not long after finishing my sexological bodywork training, I started giving sensual massages and I haven’t stopped. I love being able to combine a relaxing sensual massage, where full nudity and mutual touch is permitted, with my bodywork training. I love to combine the erotic with the relaxing, the meditative with the sensual. I love to show different paths to extended pleasure and orgasm. I love to meet a man – usually nervous and excited, to calm him down and create a safe space where he can explore, play, learn and relax. It is a privilege to witness another person in their vulnerability, to nurture their arousal, to see them leave relaxed, refreshed, revitalized.

Did I say how much I love my job?